He likes to drink, so if it’s an occasion where we went on a date or it’s a holiday or something (which is when we generally have sex) he’s probably had a few and it takes him forever to cum. “I’ll give my husband BJs in the morning but not at night. Every time I think about it I get anxiety about whether I’m going to give him a shitty BJ and how much better his previous girlfriends must have been.” - Christina, 33 14. He apologized profusely when he saw how crushed I was, but I just never got my mojo back in that area. “My husband made a comment about my BJ skills a few years ago. “I can count on one hand the times I gave him head while we were dating, so it’s not like it stopped, it’s just never been something I like to do and he’s always known that.” - Caroline, 30 13. I get that’s he’s focusing but he can’t give me a grunt or a groan or anything? It’s a lot of work to do and if he doesn’t seem to be LOVING it I don’t really see why I should have to do it.” - Jenny, 27 12. Just like lay down for 15 minutes as if he was in a coma and then get up and do something else. “This is kind of silly because I know he enjoys them, but whenever I would give him head my husband would just lay there and never make a sound. At some point we just stopped experimenting and playing around and doing all the foreplay stuff. Our sex routine is short and sweet, and that works for both of us because we can squeeze it in and we’re still doing it a few times a week. “We’ve been together so long we’re experts in getting each other off. I can’t muster up the energy to do oral because I’m not feeling the sex in general.” - Rachel, 31 10. I can’t remember the last time he’s told me I look nice, let alone sexy. Now he just expects things and doesn’t say thank you. He used to court me and compliment me and make me feel sexy and desired. “My husband is mad the blow jobs have stopped, but he doesn’t turn me on anymore.
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I would give him blowjobs every other day if he could figure out how to cum in like 7 minutes.” - Jackie, 26 9. “He takes forever to cum and I got sick of it. It was fun and exciting then, but now it’s like, fuck we haven’t had sex in couple months so I feel guilty and make it happen, but blow jobs are a level I can’t even aspire to right now.” –Lisa, 28 8. “I don’t enjoy sex the way I did when we were dating. It’s one thing to have occasional sex, since it can be impersonal (we don’t usually kiss or anything) but oral is so intimate, I can’t bring myself to do it.” - Chloe, 25 7. “To be completely honest, I don’t really like my husband anymore. Why should I have to give him BJs too?” - Marissa, 33 6. I pull so much more of the weight in our family than he does. The BJs tapered off as the resentment towards my husband began to grow. I’m working all day and then I’m with the kids and making sure they have everything taken care of and figuring out meals and cleaning. “My life is so stressful and I never feel like I get a break.
He doesn’t want to do regular BJs so I don’t do them at all.” - Olivia, 30 5. Now he’s obsessed with porn that features aggressive blow jobs. At this point, I’m no longer interested in giving him a one way deal.” - Ali, 32 4. “At this point I’ve been with my husband 8 years and he’s gone down on me a handful of times, and that was only when we started dating. Neither of us do oral.” - Charlotte, 34 3. We rarely have date nights and have sex maybe once a month - and then it’s like, time to get down to business. We both work full-time and have young kids, it’s hard to juggle everything. “Honestly, I’m so busy all the time I haven’t even thought about oral in a long time.
After a few years of being together I got more confident and I didn’t worry about “losing” him because of what I did and didn’t enjoy in bed.” - Sophia, 29 2. I was torturing myself with this because I wanted to be a good girlfriend, but it would take him 45 minutes to cum and then my jaw would be sore all the next day. I don’t mind licking and teasing, but I want to do it for a few minutes and then move on.